Friday 28 December 2012

Men need to be tamed



From time immemorial, the good and the bad have co-existed in the world. Across societies around the world, instances of the bad causing the ugliest of experiences have always existed. Such acts do not merely end with just their occurrence but also leave an unhealed and unbearable wound on the victim’s life. The pages of history stand testimony to the bitter fact that it is mostly men who have been the ones to orchestrate the worst of acts that are humanely possible. Some of these acts haunt us in general, while the relatively or rather stereo-typically referred to as the weaker sections of society are victims at large.


Topping the list of the heinous acts committed by this most proclaimed section of society is a rape. Technically speaking, the word means an act that forces someone to have sex against their will. Is it really so simple and naive, as an act? A rape, once committed, leaves the woman’s soul tore into pieces and she is left with a challenge to rise from it and live. What adds to her pain and agony is the way society treats her. They often accuse her of being responsible for what she had gone through. Victim-blaming is what the majority of the so-called intellectuals of the society do.



       

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Is our ethnocentrism justified? First, we are incapable of protecting our women and on top of that, we blame them for what happens to them. Isn’t victim blaming just an excuse to prevent ourselves from accepting the fact that our men need to be tamed and sensitised? This attitude of always making women conscious that they should not get raped is neither fair nor justifiable. Why not try and make our men understand that they should not rape? The ruthless, cruel and imbecile men in today’s society need to be told that you can’t take out your frustrations on women; be it through a rape or domestic violence. It should be strongly placed in their beings that frustrations caused due to their own failures in life doesn’t give them a right to spoil someone else’s life. Majority of the people who actually want a solution to this issue instead of just making false promises like the government are of the same opinion. They strongly feel that sensitisation of men is the way forward.

                                            


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In spite of this, there would still be a section of men, high on ego and superiority who would continue to indulge in acts like these. For such men, or rather animals that are incapable of social conduct, chemical castration and capital punishment should be imposed by the law. For once, the bureaucrats and the people who apparently govern this country should state an example to the rest of the world. Men, specifically rapists, unable to control their sexual drive should be subjected to chemical castration. This would guarantee the elimination of one sexual animal from society every single time it’s conducted. More times this is implemented; more would be the number of secured women in society.
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Today’s men need to decide whether they want to be on the good side or the bad. Either they live like a true man with dignity and self-respect, guaranteeing women the same quality of life or they succumb to their evil desires and commit such heinous crimes, defeating the whole notion of humanity. Existence like that of an animal or a man - is a question that needs some serious thought.

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